Sunday 22 September 2013

The Fog Always Lifts

This August Jeff and I set out on a two week east coast roadtrip, determined to see everything there was to see in Quebec City, all of New Brunswick, the entire island of PEI and all of that beautiful Nova Scotia, from Digby Neck to the Cabot Trail.  Lots of warnings from friends and family who had travelled down east met the news of our trip “I hope the weather holds for you” “aye, I remember the Cabot Trail – couldn’t see a bloody thing!” (I don’t know who that Scottish-toned person is but they look like this in my mind:
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and “oh, Halifax.  Would have been nice to see the waterfront but it rained the whole time.”  Regardless, we checked the long term forecast, gave each other the thumbs up and set out.

And, with the weather gods apparently on our side, we were met with brilliant sunshine all but four days.  The first was our epic drive from Quebec City to Miramichi, NB.  There were parts of that drive where it was raining buckets, other parts where it was just spitting, and long stretches of simply eerie fog snaking through the mountains.  The only activity hindered by the damp was ziplining over Grand Falls in Grand  Falls, NB.  I was epically disappointed as this place was just amazing:
 
Maybe sometime we’ll have a chance to return to NB and go for it!  I think still-getting-over-lifelong-fear-of-heights Jeff was secretly relieved he didn’t have to cling for dear life to a slippery cable over the crashing waters and jagged rocks.  I had a dream of a sunset dinner overlooking the Miramichi River from our hotel restaurant that night.  We brought our bags in in the absolute pouring rain L.  But, as I looked out the hotel room window over the majestic river, I could see clear skies peeking at me from the east and suddenly there were traces of golden light lighting the river and the post-rain fog was dissipating as we watched.  I just about got my wish of the sunset dinner, with the added bonus of seafood pasta featuring famous Miramichi salmon, watching Jeff drinking blueberry beer and birds darting over the river.

The second was our transitioning from PEI to Nova Scotia day.  We ambitiously decided to drive from Cabot Head Provincial Park on the north shore to Annapolis Royal, just west of Digby in the NW of Nova Scotia.  It was a cloudy, foggy morning as we packed up our camping gear and set off on our “scenic” south shore drive.  You could make out a lighthouse or two across a harbour, but mostly it was a pretty gloomy day. 
 
Once again, the fog changed to an epic downpour at points, including of course when we had to run to and from the grocery store and in and out of our cabin.  The rain ceased long enough that night so I could do a load of laundry (hijinx break?  I drove to the laundry room, saw it was coin operated, drove back to the main office for change, put the change in the dryer instead of the washer (who puts the dryer on the left!!!), drove back to the main office for more change, drove back to the laundry room (got yelled at by a woman to SLOW DOWN – don’t worry lady, my night wouldn’t have been “made” by hitting your kid with my car, that’s in no one’s best interest), put my wash in, lost the money I’d put in the dryer (10 minute max window?  We’ll never know), drove back to the cottage, back to the laundry room to switch the stuff into the dryer, and back later to pick it up.  I was very tired of doing laundry by that point.  Sidenote Jeff had slept for 2 hours while camping, then drove for 10 hours, so he was asleep sitting up on the couch at 8:10 p.m., true story) but when we woke up the next morning, the fog was heavy in the air.  Uh oh.  It was whale watching day.  You can’t see whales in the fog!! 
 
On Digby neck the fog seemed to have a life and agenda of its own. One side of the neck of land was perfectly sunny while the other was drowning in fog.
Fog
 
No fog

Of course where our whale boat was taking off from was insanely foggy – you could actually feel it on your face.  Jeff took a picture of this lighthouse (see above) that was barely visible as we set off from shore.  Then, suddenly, somehow , as our boat blazed through the Bay of Fundy, we broke through the curtain of fog into the most brilliantly sunny day I’ve ever seen.  Something about the dark, dark blue of the Atlantic ocean can make a day seem exponentially more gorgeous than a regular sunny day spent anywhere else.  I feel so lucky we passed that curtain of fog and broke out into the blue skies, because whale watching was absolutely unreal!  Highlights were two humpback whales who I swear had been trained by the whale boats – rising, diving, breaching and doing barrel rolls.  One barrel roll happened 10m from our boat.  Being so close to a whale that you can smell stinky whale breath is pretty incredibly awesome.  My biggest sympathy for the whales is the way barnacles hitch a ride on their tails and bodies – can you imagine how freaking itchy it would be to have a barnacle attached to you at all times.  No wonder the whales were slapping their huge fins in the water as hard as they were – possibly dislodging a barnacle or two in the process.

Barnacled Humpback
Our third foggy day hit us as we stretched way up into the northwest part of Nova Scotia: the Cabot Trail.  We woke up to fog and the promise of a 90% chance of rain all day all over Cape Breton.  Great.  The one day we allotted ourselves to do this beautiful scenic drive and it’s not even going to be visible?  We crept up the highlands and found ourselves deep in the fog.  Breathing it, feeling the droplets on your cheeks, watching the collection of moisture drip off nearby lampposts – it was foggy.  We were still able to make out hills, mountains and a few scenic peeks at the sea, but for sure the visibility was reduced. 
 
Then, suddenly, the gray skies just seemed to get brighter.  I swear I could see one particularly concentrated area of bright. We pulled off at the next lookout and there it was – the sun!  Doing its very best to break through the clouds.  And it did!  By the time we got to the next stop the sky was a tumultuous mix of clouds and fog being burned off by a gleaming yellow sun in a perfect blue sky.
 
And by the afternoon, it was an undeniably perfect sunny day that had me reaching for my sunscreen.  We enjoyed the lovely weather as we made our way along the Cabot trail and back down the highlands into the south part of Cape Breton.  It clouded over again, but I am eternally grateful we got to see the views we did.  Many of them made my list of “most beautiful things I’ve ever seen”.  It gets longer with every trip we take.  It’s a gorgeous, wild, and often sunny world out there to explore!

A nice metaphor for life, perhaps, that no matter how dark, gloomy or unsettled things seem, the sun is under there somewhere, and will, in time, burn through the fog and find you again.

Monday 16 September 2013

Concert High

 Last night I had the absolute pleasure of FINALLY seeing one of my favourite bands since 2006, Panic! at the Disco, along with openers Twenty One Pilots and headliner Fall Out Boy.  I've seen Fall Out Boy twice already but find their new album to be the most ridiculously catchy thing that ever existed, so needless to say I was crazy excited.

I've never heard of Twenty One Pilots.  But they were wearing ski masks.  And singing songs with pretty decent social messages.  So I was in! Jeff and I agreed they weren't bad at all, though we only arrived in time to see two songs.

Then we waited for my buddy Brendon Urie and Panic! to take the stage.  It was raining at Echo Beach, but Jeff and I hardly noticed.  An all standing venue, on beach sand, surrounded by kids average age perhaps 18... but we didn't feel old.. we just felt excited.  Ok so part of this excitement could possibly be attested to the fact that the opening band was done before 8 p.m. meaning we'd be able to see good long sets from Panic! and FOB and still manage to make it home in time for Jeff to clock some shuteye before his 14 hour day at work today.  Yes.. so we're old. But whatever works to get you PUMPED! :D

When Brendon took the stage and started with "It's Time to Dance", I was transported back to 2007 instantly.  I had just downloaded that song and was playing it over and over again on my iPod on my drive to work at my shiny new job.  This was exactly 6 years ago... ack!  Time really flies.  "Well, she's not bleeding on the ballroom floor just for the attention.. cuz that's just ridiculous.."  Jeff and I had fun answering "WEDDING" to the prompt of "SHOTGUN", singing at the top of our lungs with all the other kiddies.  They played my current fave, the single Miss Jackson (B's dancing in this video originally sold me hard on this song http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LUc_jXBD9DU - I often try to emulate his moves while Bailey and I are out hiking.. results likely laughable!).  They played their new single, a couple from their last album which was good but not comparable in my eyes to A Fever You Can't Sweat Out or Pretty. Odd, and me and Jeff's Rock Band stardom song, Nine in the Afternoon.  Most of you who are reading this and going "..who is this band?" will remember I Write Sins Not Tragedies as their breakthrough single http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vc6vs-l5dkc and if you watched music videos (like I did when I was a rich and lazy master's student!) you'll remember the world's creepiest wedding guests and yet another video where Brendon where eyeliner and a top hat.  He is also into shiny jackets, which he was wearing last night.  If there's one key to my heart, it's a sparkly item of clothing.  So ya, anyways, I can't stop laughing about the ridiculousness of all of us getting prompted to sing the start of I Write Sins - "what a beautiful wedding..." ending with "the poor groom's bride is a whore!" and Brendon brings the mike back to his lips, laughing and exclaims "she's such a slut!" then burst into the "I chime in" verse and goes on singing.  He kept sliding back and forth on the stage, in his sparkly jacket, taking advantage of the slippery drops of rain, and warning us to please laugh at him when he inevitably falls.  Which he didn't, because I'm fairly certain he's super human.  And he ended his set with a backflip off the drummer's platform down onto the stage.  Stuck it. Loved it.  I was so freaking happy.  Great songs that brought back lovely memories, and an awesome singer, completely kooky and fun, too easy to picture singing in the spotlight next to a piano at a lounge in the 20s with his beautyful rich voice.  I had a blast singing every last word.

Fall Out Boy was solid, for sure.  Their shows have gotten significantly showier since I first saw them in 2007 - more lights, more video, more planned "stunts" - but hey, it was awesome!  I'm happy to have someone put on a show for me.  I thought their first few song selections were weak, but was thrilled when they started to play a few off their new album, especially Young Volcanoes which I danced my ass off to in the sand and the rain.  Dance Dance was more 2005 nostalgia - I drew the heart a la 2005 Patrick (you have to watch the video or have a good memory to know what I mean http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C6MOKXm8x50).  They have a pretty solid selection of songs.  Patrick has definitely gotten way more cute/fun/confident over the years too.  But, sadly, my heart still belongs to Pete Wentz - my devastating crush on him when I was 22 was embarrassing enough at the time .. it's significantly moreso now.  Especially when juxtaposed with holding hands with my husband LOL.  But alas, Kristyn will be Kristyn. ;)  And of course during the show I couldn't stop laughing in my head about this:
"Fall Out Boy", 2007 (Photo by: Dave Cristo)
There were all sorts of kind of cool videos playing on the big screen behind the guys - during Save Rock and Roll they showed pictures of amazing artists through time and encouraged everyone in the audience to create, make music, etc..  Jeff and I cheered for pics of artists we loved like Kurt Cobain, and Jeff lost his voice yelling "ya!" when they showed Tupac and Biggie. Lol.  There was a long video segment that was confusing and it was really dark for a good few minutes while we all watched it, wondering where it was leading.  Then, all of a sudden, there is screaming directly behind me and the guys (sans drummer) have set up maybe 15 feet behind us and are starting to play a lovely, soft version of I'm Like a Lawyer With the Way I'm Always Trying to Get you Off (yes).  Being so close to them (to Pete?) brought tears to my eyes.  I was so happy. Tall Jeff snapped a couple of pics, just to show how close we actually were for those few songs, including a sing a long to Where Is Your Boy Tonight - just amazing!  I like to hope when they asked us to sing Patrick heard me, and pictured the likeness of the girl in the picture above (lol).

Photo: An unexpected awesome surprise when FOB popped up for an acoustic jam 15 feet behind us! Fourth row baby! :) then back to 80th row. Lol. Great show!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Almost best seats in the house - for 3 songs!

Probably my biggest FOB surprise was when they covered Drake's Hold on We're Going Home.  They called him a hometown hero (haha Wheelchair Jimmy).  Cool, I like Drake.  I don't think the target audience was quite right though, lots of derision (including from Jeff haha).  And another great surprise was when they brought Mr. Sparkly Jacket back on stage to do the vocals for 20 Dollar Nosebleed, a Fall Out Boy song that I have ALWAYS ADORED, and until last night had no idea he was the guest/lead vocalist on.  No wonder I liked it so much! Listening to it today I can't believe I didn't realize it sooner! Before he left the stage, he did another backflip.  Excellent.

My main "hrrrrrmmm" about the FOB set was Pete's little interludes of talking between songs.  I sort of wish he would just keep his pretty mouth shut.  At one point, trying to encourage kids to embrace music he managed to compare FOB's Save Rock and Roll album to Green Day's Dookie (come on, Pete).  And he kept referencing all the "kids in the crowd" who "just don't fit in" and people "just don't get you - but I feel that, man, no one ever got me either".  Jeff and I just looked at each other and laughed.  We lamented our mortgage, steady jobs and marriage and just how well we fit in to life in general.. dammit! ;)  There were some definite freaks around us.  Good for them.  I hope the freaks find comfort in the music.  I know I have at lower points in my life (Bang the Doldrums basically healed me after a cruddy breakup) - and I'll always be a bit of a weirdo at heart (and on the surface.. and in extremely detailed blog posts about concerts attended mainly by teenagers).

Amazing, amazing show overall.  The energy, especially from Panic! (did I mention the bassist was also wearing a sparkly shirt, and their big sign behind the stage was sparkly too?) was contagious.  I went home in the most fabulous of moods, after being a bit in the dumps yesterday, and have been riding my Concert High all day long.  Cleaning out the fridge, dusting the house and vacuuming up another mountain of dog hair today were tasks made much more enjoyable by dancing and singing at the top of my lungs, reliving my favourite parts of the show (yes, I will now insert "she's such a slut!" into I Write Sins every time I sing it! - I'm all class, for the record).  I didn't even notice the rain.  Just the tunes, the good vibes, and Pete Wentz' smile (KIDDING).

And I can't finish up my concert post without mentioning seeing Alan Doyle at Jackson Triggs winery's amphitheatre last Friday night.  He's the lead singer of Great Big Sea, for the unenlightened (!!), and does some solo stuff.  He was incredible.  I dare anyone to go acapella (spell check is suggesting "scapula" to replace that - I'm going to leave it...) all alone on stage, nothing but your voice and a glass of wine, and sound anything like Alan.  He is unreal!  My mom and I both got misty eyed during one of his ballads, about what else, a sailor, the sea and his love back home.  Le sigh!  A wonderful week of concerts.

Have you seen your favourite band lately!?  If not, I would strongly recommend it for filling your soul and putting a huge smile on your face, and kooky dance in your step.

Tuesday 3 September 2013

Trip Highlights


In Quebec City we wandered cobbled streets

Admired centuries of history

Dined at an authentic Italian restaurant

Where a French waiter and two significantly Anglo Ontarians tried to find common ground

Stayed at a hotel on a lake that we never had time to see

And picnicked on cheese and baguette while the Vinyl Café played on the radio

 

In New Brunswick we hopped into inner tubes

Strapped to one another, and also to our cooler

We cracked a cold beer as our feet dangled in the cold river

And floated peacefully down the Miramichi

I definitely crashed into the trees hanging over the riverbank at one point

And we laughed

 

On the south shore of New Brunswick we walked on the ocean floor

The tide was out, the tourists were in

And the Hopewell Rocks were as towering and majestic as anything had ever been

Cinched at the waist, busty ladies in corsets gathered together

100 feet over the rest of us, looking down

Eroded by the endless ocean

Hugged by bubble wrap seaweed, floating and clinging then squinting against the bright sun

Until the tide returned

 

We ate salmon in Miramichi

Lobster in Shediac (Acadian style, of course!)

We dined on mussels, clam chowder and more lobster in New Glasgow, PEI

We savoured Digby scallops on Digby neck – warmed on a toasted hot dog bun, somehow the greatest meal I have ever tasted

Lobster rolls and scallop encores in Lunenburg

1.5 lbs of lobster and fresh salmon near Peggy’s Cove

Oysters, lobster and haddock in Halifax

Deep fried everything in Antigonish – the ocean floor in a fryer, then on our plates

Steamed clams (steamed hams?) fresh from the ocean in Portland, Maine

And $1/piece oysters for Jeff

On my to do list: getting fresh seafood shipped to Ontario for minimal cost… (suggestions welcome!)

 

On PEI we clapped, sang and stomped at a ceilidh

Fiddlers fiddled, step dancers stepped, trumpets blared

Jokes flowed

Songs sung – from the beloved Stompin’ Tom, to Mike the ceilidh guy’s “ol’ belly rubber” which made this big weenie cry

Bald eagles flew overhead nonchalantly

Herons clustered together in flocks

Where were we!?

 

Lighthouses, lighthouses, lighthouses

From gorgeous, to run down, to ugly, to lonely, to majestic

From red, to white, to black

Beacons on every point

Everywhere

(Lighthousemoon?)

 

Whale watching off Digby Neck

The humpback whale barrel roll

Fins of minkes all around

Brilliant sun 1, pervasive fog 0

Did I mention the scallop rolls?

 

Touring the west coast and the Acadian villages

Blue, red, white flags, yellow star

Pride in history, unchanging for centuries

Views of the ocean

“I could live here”

 

Lunenburg, so colourful, so quaint, so adorable

The perfect fishing town

Tall colourful architecture here, the Bluenose II over there

And a harbour full of sailboats under a shining sun

The bluest water I have ever seen

 

Peggy’s Cove

Pink granite, blue water, shining sky

Lighthouse perfection

Clambering on rocks, waves crashing all around

Feeling so unbelievably at home

 

Halifax.  Waterfront.  Could have set up a shop and moved right onto the boardwalk, never leaving

Or could have stayed a year at the Keith’s brewery where folks in period costumes danced and sung

Could have spent every night for the rest of my life listening to Signal Hill at the Lower Deck, while the good beer flowed

Could have stayed there and never left, I’m sure of it (NCC Atlantic, are you hiring?)

 

Laying on a beach

This was worth not taking the long route

To find this time to relax

The coldest, saltiest water

Nothing more refreshing

The warm, reddish sand

Quiet, reading, relaxing

“We need to find time to do more of THIS” says Jeff

 

Cape Breton

My history, my blood

The Cabot Trail and the most beautiful vistas in the world

Winding on a road up a mountain

While the sea opened up below

Climbing further and further up

Green hills that went on forever

Fiddle music pulsing in my veins

 

Time with Jeff

A commodity there just isn’t always enough of

Two weeks, 7,500 kms, countless stops, always on the move

Coming, going

Cabins with salamander guests, hotel rooms in 4 provinces and 1 state

Feeling at home the entire time, because my home was right beside me, driving the car and smiling at me

 

A wonderful. Spectacular. Unforgettable. Exhausting. Brilliant two weeks.

Canada’s east coast - perfection